Ruling on agreeing with one of the wives on giving up some of her rights

5-5-2011 | IslamWeb

Question:

Which is safer in terms of clearing oneself of liability: to keep a wife who pretends to like her co-wife, or to divorce her?

Answer:

All perfect praise be to Allaah, the Lord of the worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, is His Slave and Messenger.

 

There is no harm or blame on the husband if one or both of his wives willingly agreed to give up some of her due rights seeking to remain in wedlock or for any other reason.

Imaam Maalik  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him cited in his book Al-Muwatta’ that Raafi' ibn Khadeej  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him   made an agreement with one of his wives to give up some of her due rights and he kept her as his wife on that condition and he did not feel guilty that she accepted it.

Moreover, Al-Baaji  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him highlights in his explanation of Al-Muwatta’, “If the wife approves of this condition, it is permissible. Sawdah bint Zam‘ah  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her gave up her night [of sleep over] to ‘Aaishah  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her seeking to please the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, who allocated two nights of sleep over with ‘Aaishah  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her." 

Hence, we would like to advise you to keep your wife if she agrees to live with you unless this might bring about any sort of harm or Fitnah for her (temptations in her religion). Moreover, it is worth mentioning that if you manage to fulfill her due rights, even if she gives them up, this would be a praiseworthy act of highly refined manners.

Allaah Knows best.

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