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So, we say: Wearing good clothes in something permitted in the Sharee'ah.
The Prophet said: “Anyone who has an atom’s weight of pride in his heart shall not enter Paradise.” A man said: “O Prophet of Allah, a man likes that his clothes look nice and his shoes look nice.” He (the Prophet) said: “That is not pride. Pride is rejecting the truth (out of self-conceit) and disdaining people.” [Muslim]
So, if anyone wants to wear good clothes, he is in conformity with the natural predisposition upon which Allah created mankind, whether he intended to influence the people or otherwise. This does not harm and it is not considered as minor Shirk.
Allah knows best.