All perfect praise be to Allah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allah, and that Muhammad, is His slave and Messenger.
It is incumbent on you to give your grandfather and grandmother their rightful shares of their son’s estate, and what your father said is not to be taken into consideration. Even if he had written a will to disinherit his parents, it would be an invalid will wherein he transgresses the Limits of Allah. Moreover, the bequest made in favor of his wife and daughters is a bequest made in favor of heirs, which is not valid under the Sharee‘ah, as evidenced by the statement of the Prophet : “Allah has given each person his due share of the inheritance, so no bequest is to be made in favor of an heir.” [At-Tirmithi and Abu Daawood] The version cited by Ad-Daaraqutni has the following addition: “...unless approved by the heirs.” So if your father bequeathed his estate to his wife or to you (his children), it is a bequest made in favor of an heir; it cannot be executed except with the consent of his parents. If they do not consent to it, then they must be given their rightful shares, whether they are rich or poor, and whether you are rich or poor. So fear Allah and do not deprive them of their rightful shares of the inheritance; this is considered devouring people’s wealth wrongfully and disobedience to Allah, The Exalted. After declaring the rights of the heirs in the verses about the distribution of inheritance, Allah, The Exalted, Says (what means): {These are the limits [set by] Allah, and whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger will be admitted by Him to gardens [in Paradise] under which rivers flow, abiding eternally therein; and that is the great attainment.* And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger and transgresses His limits – He will put him into the Fire to abide eternally therein, and he will have a humiliating punishment.} [Quran 4:13-14]
Allah Knows best.