Extent of sex acts in marriage

11-4-2005 | IslamWeb

Question:

I have two questions regarding sex in married life:-1.I know that husband and wife are not allowed to have sexual intercourse during menstruation period but are they allowed any type of sex other then this and what is the limit?Can wife touch and see husband's private parts and also masturbate him (to fulfill his sexual desire during this period).Can husband touch and see wife other then vagina?Can he get pleasure by putting his penis between her legs or breasts? Can both sleep togather without any dress?2.In normal days can they have oral sex with condom? Can wife suck husbands manhood while he is wearing condom? Can husband kiss and also lick wife's vagina?

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Answer:

Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds; and may His blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his Family and Companions.

There is no blame in one's enjoying with his wife as long as one avoids the anus and the vagina in the time of menses.
Furthermore, there is no objection as long as one avoids, impurity of pre-seminal fluid. This state is confined to one's relation with his wife. But, it is completely Haram to have oral sex outside marriage. For more details check our Fatwa No. 81980.
Allah knows best.