Receives gifts from his father-in-law who works in a bar

1-10-2007 | IslamWeb

Question:

assalam o alaikum i,m from pakistan recently Alah gave me haddayat and i i,m trying to follow islam completely i have a problem my father in law works in america in a bar where alcohol is sold he earns from that all the things they gave to my wife on marriage were from that source also my mother in law bring us so many gifts all from that income plz help me what to do i wanna resolve the issue with hikmat i know the earning from this source is nharam i wanna stay away from haram also wanna keep my kids away from that but i have gr8 respect for my father in law and mother inlaw i know if i ask them directly it would hurt them i wanna know one thing is it possible whatever gift they bring for my kids i accept that and than i give the same amount as a charity to poor people plz reply me soon i send this questions to many sites nobody replied hope u will hepl me i,m so tense i,m going on hajj this year my mother inlaw bring so many clothes and other things for us i totally efused my wife to take these things with us to hajj i told him that for hajj we should use our own money infact she knows it all but don,t ask me anything i don,t wanna hurt her too as she is an obedient and honest wife so i,m waiting for ur reply

Answer:

All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) is His slave and Messenger.

 

Forbidden money is of two kinds:

1)  Money forbidden in itself, like stolen money: it is absolutely not permissible to deal with a person who has this kind of money, except if one takes this money to give it back to its owner.

2)  Forbidden money due to the way it was earned, like a person working in a bar and the like; the scholars  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  them differed in opinion about this issue, some are of the view that it is permissible to deal with a person who earned this money whereas others are of the opinion that it is not permissible to deal with him. Abdur-Razzaaq As-San'aani  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him reported that Ibn Mas'ood  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him was asked by a man that his neighbour consumes Riba (interest and/or usury) and he often invites him, then Ibn Mas'ood  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him told him: Benefit from it, and the sin is on its earner.

Imaam Ahmad  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him stated that this narration is authentic, as stated by Ibn Rajab  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him from the Hanbali School.

Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymeen's  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him stated: The rule is that the money which is forbidden due to the way it was earned is only forbidden for the person who earned it and not for the person who takes this money in a permissible way, and the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) accepted gifts from the Jews…despite them dealing with Riba.

Therefore, according to this opinion, it is permissible for you to accept the gifts from your parents in-law, while endeavouring to advise your father in-law, as Allaah may guide him thanks to you.

Nonetheless, according to the second opinion, which is the view of many scholars  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  them and it is safer to act upon it, if your father in-law has no income other than his forbidden job, then it is not permissible for you to accept his gifts unless you are in dire necessity for it. If you are in dire necessity, then it is permissible for you to accept it because you become one of the legitimate recipients who are allowed to take this money whenever its earner has repented and wants to dispose of it. However, since you took these gifts while you are not one of its legitimate recipients and it is not possible to give it back to him, then the solution is to give its value for the poor and destitute with the intention of getting rid of forbidden money.

Allaah Knows best.

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