Are singing and music allowed in Islam. i have come through one hadith which i am quoting it down : From Bukhari Volume 2, Book 15, Number 70: Narrated Aisha: Allah's Apostle (p.b.u.h) came to my house while two girls were singing beside me the songs of Buath (a story about the war between the two tribes of the Ansar, the Khazraj and the Aus, before Islam). The Prophet (p.b.u.h) lay down and turned his face to the other side. Then Abu Bakr came and spoke to me harshly saying, "Musical instruments of Satan near the Prophet (p.b.u.h) ? " Allah's Apostle (p.b.u.h) turned his face towards him and said, "Leave them." When Abu Bakr became inattentive, I signaled to those girls to go out and they left. It was the day of 'Id, and the Black people were playing with shields and spears; so either I requested the Prophet (p.b.u.h) or he asked me whether I would like to see the display. I replied in the affirmative. Then the Prophet (p.b.u.h) made me stand behind him and my cheek was touching his cheek and he was saying, "Carry on! O Bani Arfida," till I got tired. The Prophet (p.b.u.h) asked me, "Are you satisfied (Is that sufficient for you)?" I replied in the affirmative and he told me to leave. This same Hadith is reported to us again in Sahih Muslim Book 004, Number 1942 In the light of above hadith what can we infer?

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We have already issued Fataawa 81239, 81545 and 84664 on the ruling of singing and music, so please refer to them.

As for the narration which the questioner mentioned, it is an authentic narration reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim . Nonetheless, this narration does not prove the permissibility of singing and using musical instruments. As a matter of fact the Prophet endorsed the description of Abu Bakr for singing as "the musical instruments of the devil", he further clarified to him that that day was a day of 'Eed in which certain singing is allowed as an exception. He told him: ''O Abu Bakr, leave them, every people have their day of 'Eed…''. He did not tell him that songs are permissible and that they are not considered as musical instruments of the devil.

Al-'Atheem Abaadi said: ‘The Prophet did not disapprove Abu Bakr for calling the songs 'the musical instruments of the devil'. He approved of the singing of the two girls as they were young and not yet pubescent. In addition, the girls were singing Bedouin songs of the battle of Bu'aath about courage and war.

However, under the influence of the devil, some people have stretched this exception to include the singing of women or feminine looking boys whose voices and appearances cause temptation and who sing using lyrics that invites to fornication, adultery, dissoluteness, and promote the consumption of intoxicants. Furthermore, they sing using musical instruments which Allaah and His Prophet had prohibited. They neglect clear evidences that prohibit such acts and base the permissibility of this prohibited act on the narration of the two young girls who did not use a flute, or Duff (a tambourine-like instrument without bells) and they never danced or clapped when singing. Finally, this practice of leaving the conclusive evidences for an unclear indication of an evidence is the characteristic of the people of falsehood.' 

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