Suspecting that fiancé masturbates and watches pornography
Fatwa No: 367132

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Assalaamu alaykum. I found out that my fiancé masturbates and watches bad videos. He would “like” a comment on Facebook about a shaykh speaking about how to get rid of this, and this is how I knew. He also hinted before to me that he does it and tries to stop. I feel devastated for two reasons: he is perfect in every other way. I am also devastated because I used to masturbate, and I think that Allah is punishing me. Should I confront my fiancé? Would this mean that I am a hypocrite because I also used to masturbate and sometimes fall into the act. I just cannot stand him anymore. I know that he is trying to improve, but he still falls into the act. What should I do? Should I ask him about it and speak to him? Please note that we have been wed to each other but do not yet live with each other.

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