A man said thrice to his wife, "You are unlawful to me." He just intended to threaten her, not to divorce her. So, what is the Sharee‘ah ruling on this case? What is the due expiation in this regard? What should he do in order to take her in wedlock again? Please advise. May Allaah Reward you.

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Saying thrice to one's wife, "You are unlawful to me" is an indirect expression of divorce and only intention determines its effect. If the husband intended, by this saying, divorce, Thihaar (making one's wife unlawful by saying "You are like my mother's back.")  Or 'Eelaa’ (swearing not to have sexual relations with one's wife), then what he intended is effected. If he did not intend anything or intended only to threaten her, then expiation for breaking an oath is due.

Accordingly, if he intended to make a threat, only expiation for a broken oath is due. It will be better and more prudent if he also makes the expiation for Thihaar.

Allaah Knows best.