Her husband is angry because she mixes with men at university Fatwa No: 89022
- Fatwa Date:9-12-2004
I m a Muslim woman living in Italy, I study in university, I meet some male colleagues; Muslims, in my class and we talk about lessons and family problems. When I tell my husband about male colleagues and their problems, he gets angry with me. And treating me to prevent me from study. I ask if he is right. What can I do?
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. We ask Allaah to exalt his mention as well as that of his family and all his companions.
You are definitely not allowed to mix with alien men or socialize with them. It is apparent from your question that you are too open with them to discuss the family matters all of which is forbidden, and it most likely leads to many other prohibitions.
See the details about this matter in the Fatwas: 82730 and 82431.
It is your husband's duty to prevent you from all kinds of sins. And you have to obey him. You have to avoid mixing and talking with males to please Allaah and to fulfill your husband's right. See the Fatwa: 84281.
Your husband also has the right to stop you from your studies.
For more details about the mutual rights of spouses, read the Fataawa: 84908 and 85308.
Allaah knows best.