I'm an atheist and my wife is a Muslim. She wants me to have a circumcision in order to please here. My point is why should I? Why should I alter the body GOD gave me? It says that tattoos and other bodily markings are forbidden in the holy book. In addition I've heard men state that once cut they have erectile problems. Please advise.

All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. We ask Allaah to exalt his mention as well as that of his family and all his companions.

It is not permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim man as Allaah Says (which means): {And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al-Mushrikeen till they believe (in Allaah Alone) And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allaah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission.…}[Quran 2:221]. Allaah further Says (which means): {O you who have believed, when the believing women come to you as emigrants, examine [i.e. test] them. Allaah is most knowing as to their faith. And if you know them to be believers, then do not return them to the disbelievers; they are not lawful [wives] for them, nor are they lawful [husbands] for them.}[Quran 60:10]. Indeed the scholars agreed in a consensus that it is not permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim man. Therefore, the marriage contract between you and the woman you think is your wife is void.

As regards circumcision, it is one of the best legislations that Allaah legislated for His slaves, and with it He beautified their apparent and hidden charms. It is one of the natural dispositions upon which Allaah created mankind. In addition to this, circumcision has many medical advantages. Furthermore, it is scientifically proven that the white secretions that gather between the foreskin of the penis and the penis cause a continuous scratch to the skin of the penis and to the neck of the womb of the woman with whom this uncircumcised man is married. This continuous scratch causes many diseases to the penis and to the neck of the womb of the wife, like cancer and the like. Nonetheless, circumcision is something secondary for a person who has not yet embraced Islam. Therefore, we advise you to embrace Islam so that you will achieve happiness in this life and the Hereafter and to save yourself from a severe torment on the Day of Judgement. For more benefit and information about Islam, you could refer to Fataawa (plural of Fatwa): 81979, 88906, 88276, 88176 and 89563.

Allaah Knows best.