Husband informing his wife before having sexual intercourse with her Fatwa No: 92291
- Fatwa Date:8-8-2006
I was told by one of my friend that in order have sexually intercourse with your wife you must inform her early in the morning so she will be prepared for it , is there is any hadit realting to this fact that it is must that you inform your wife, please Explain in details
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. We ask Allaah to exalt his mention as well as that of his family and all his companions.
As far as we know, there is no Prophetic narration which suggests that the husband is obliged to inform his wife when he wishes to have sexual intercourse with her neither in the morning nor in the evening.
The husband is permitted to have intercourse with his wife whenever he wishes unless she is in her menstruation or in post-partum bleeding, and he is not obliged to inform her beforehand. However, it is desirable for him to give her the opportunity to beautify herself for him, and it is desirable to engage with her in foreplay before intercourse in order to incite her desires so that she will enjoy him in the same way he enjoys her.
For more benefit, please refer to Fatwa 84944.
Allaah Knows best.