When I go to the bathroom, I usually wait at least an hour before making "Wudu", fearing some urine would come out. Even if I waited 3 hours, I would feel something coming out. I don't know if this was "waswasah" or for real. I tried checking my underwear and my "penis-sorry for the language-" but I never found anything. Of course, I had to make "Wudu" again, because touching your penis is Haram. This is driving me nuts. Sometimes I make "Wudu" 3 or 4 times for each "Salah". My second question is about "al mathee". I don't know when it comes out of me. I sometime, without even thinking about Haram things, I feel something coming out of me. I don't know if it is "al-mathee", so I put some water in my hand and put some on my "penis" and then I would make my "Wudu". So is this right? I only feel this when I am on "Wudu". Whenever I am on "Wudu" I feel that, but when I am not on Wudu, I wouldn't feel a thing. This is driving me nuts. I don't know what am I suppose to do, and this is really bad for me. Sometimes I would rather not pray, but then I would feel bad, because I am not obeying God!

All perfect praise be to Allah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger.

Dear Brother, from your statement, it is clear that what you described is not a reality but whispers of the devil. Indeed, the devil always tries to make a Muslim doubtful about his acts of worship in order to cause him trouble and prevent him from the sweetness taste of worship. Therefore, you should always seek refuge in Allah from the devil and ask Him to repel these whispers from you. Also, you should not go along with these thoughts and not pay any attention to them. This is the cure for whispers.

You should not stay for a long time in the bathroom and you should clean yourself after urinating as people normally do and not pay any attention to what you feel afterwards.

We ask Allah to cure us and you from hidden and apparent diseases.

Allah knows best.