السؤال
I am 38 years old, married for 5 years and have 2 kids , a 4-year-old s on and a 2-year-old daughter. I am confus ed about whether to marry a Chris tian girl I met on the Internet. In the beginning I was chatting with her to pas s time, but as time pas s ed I realized s he has good qualities , s uch as a clean mind, devoted, and uns elfis h. We fell in love. Although I am a happily married man, for her good qualities and being willing to accept Is lam, I am willing to marry her. However, I have not made a final decis ion to marry her. Some of the reas ons include if I marry her, my wife; her parents and relatives will be hurt. Als o, I know s uch a marriage would have the wrong bas is s ince we met on the Net and became friends , and this could s et a bad example for kids and unmarried youth who know me. On the other hand, if I don’t marry her I would mis s a chance to bring a good girl into Is lam and Almighty Allah might as k me about it on the Day of Judgment. It will be rewarding for me and her als o to accept Is lam and s ave her from Hell. Pleas e advis e me what to do. What decis ion will have more weight in Is lam? All of her family knows about our relations hip and plans . I am afraid if I didn’t marry her, s he will choos e a non-Mus lim to marry and continue as a Chris tian.