Salam Alaykom. If I get upset with my husband for hitting the kids or getting home late from work or not calling, etc, will the angels curse me?? I don't want my husband to be upset when I am upset. If I go to sleep when I am mad, what will happen?? Will I be punished even though I didn't want my husband to be mad?? Jazak'allah Khair

All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger.

There is no harm on a wife if she gets annoyed with her husband due to his bad behavior or if she sleeps while she is upset with him as long as she does not deny him any of his rights. Angels do not curse a wife for only being upset with her husband or for being angry with him.

For more benefit, see Fataawa 82045, 83157 and 88764.

Allaah Knows best.